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August 13, 2026

Ladakh: From Kashmir to Markha Valley

A Family Journey Through the Himalayas | August 1–9, 2026

There are trips where you visit a place, take photographs, check off the sights and come home.

And then there are journeys where the landscape changes every few hours—and somewhere along the way, the journey itself becomes as memorable as the destinations.

Our Ladakh adventure was very much the latter.

Over nine days, the four of us traveled from Mumbai to Srinagar and then overland through Kargil into Ladakh. We crossed legendary mountain passes, visited monasteries and war memorials, stood near the Line of Control, wandered through tiny villages, rode camels through a Himalayan desert, helped repair a mountain road, saw the Milky Way above Pangong Lake and finally left the car behind to trek into Markha Valley.

We planned quite a bit.

But, as we would discover, some of our best experiences weren't planned at all.


August 1 — Navi Mumbai → Srinagar → Sonamarg → Kargil

Our adventure started very early on August 1 with a first for us—flying out of Navi Mumbai Airport.

We landed in Srinagar early in the morning. After breakfast on the flight, all four of us were surprisingly full, awake and ready to hit the road.

Our driver, Mohammed, met us at Srinagar airport.

The official plan for the day was fairly straightforward: drive to Kargil.

When we realized that, we immediately asked Mohammed whether we could squeeze in a quick visit to Dal Lake before leaving Srinagar.

That turned out to be a great decision.

An Unplanned Morning on Dal Lake

We admired the famous houseboats and took a short shikara ride on Dal Lake.

Almost immediately, other little boats began pulling alongside us.

As the kids described them, there was a "shopping boat," a "costume boat," and a "tea boat."

One after another, boats appeared offering something different.

It was a wonderfully entertaining introduction to Kashmir. We hadn't even properly started our road trip, and the itinerary was already going off-script.

After Dal Lake, we headed toward Sonamarg.



Horses to Thajiwas Glacier

At Sonamarg, we added another adventure—a horseback ride toward Thajiwas Glacier.

The horses carried us through the beautiful mountain landscape toward the glacier and back, giving us our first real taste of the Himalayan scenery that would surround us for the next several days.


And then came our first random food discovery.

A street vendor was selling an unusual coconut-based, fruit-looking sweet called kulcha.


We weren't entirely sure what to expect, but naturally we had to try it.

It wouldn't be the last time curiosity determined what we ate on this trip.

Zoji La and Kargil

From Sonamarg, we climbed toward Zoji La Pass.

The landscape began changing dramatically. Kashmir's lush green scenery gradually gave way to steeper, more rugged mountains.

Eventually, we entered the Drass region and reached the Kargil War Memorial and museum.

This was one of the most moving experiences of the entire journey.

Standing there and looking at the actual mountains where soldiers fought during the 1999 Kargil War gives you an appreciation that no textbook or documentary can quite reproduce.

Then the experience became unexpectedly personal.


Marathi, Thane and a Soldier's Bag

As we walked around, we heard several soldiers speaking Marathi—our language.

Naturally, we struck up a conversation.

After speaking with one of their chiefs, we discovered an incredible coincidence.

He was from Thane.

Here we were, deep in the mountains near Kargil, and suddenly we had found someone connected to home.

During our conversation, we learned that he had a rather large bag he was trying to send back to his family in Thane.

Of course, we offered to take it with us.

It was such a small contribution on our part, particularly after spending time understanding what these soldiers sacrifice by serving in such incredibly difficult conditions.

But it felt good to be able to make one small thing easier for someone who does so much.

Apparently, We Forgot Lunch

Somewhere between Dal Lake, horses, the glacier, Zoji La and Kargil, we essentially forgot to eat lunch.

Fortunately, the flight breakfast—and perhaps the mysterious kulcha—had carried us surprisingly far.

By evening, we finally reached White Castle Hotel in Kargil, which had beautiful views.

Arya and Atharva were completely finished with the day and went to sleep without dinner. Harshal and I enjoyed dinner together and finally called it a night. Note to self was better time management on lunch rest of the trip.

Our Two-Room Experiment

This trip also introduced a new family travel arrangement.

We had booked two rooms everywhere—two and two.

For the first time, Arya and Atharva had their own hotel room while Harshal and I had ours.

It turned out brilliantly.

The kids enjoyed their independence, peace and quiet.

And Harshal and I rather enjoyed ours too.

Apparently, giving teenagers their own hotel room might be one of the great family-travel discoveries.


August 2 — Kargil → Mulbekh → Namika La → Lamayuru → Leh

Day 2 started with a lovely breakfast at the White Castle restaurant.

One convenient feature throughout our trip was that breakfast and dinner were included at our hotels. We could wake up, eat well and hit the road without having to search for food first thing in the morning.

Our first official destination was Mulbekh, but we quickly learned that in Ladakh, the roadside itself is an attraction.

Prayer flags, prayer wheels and stupas began appearing against the mountains.

Naturally, we made several spontaneous photo stops.

Buddha and Three Kittens

At Mulbekh, we visited the famous rock-carved Buddha and monastery.

The surroundings were incredibly peaceful.

Harshal and I were soaking in the serenity when Arya and Atharva discovered their own attraction:

a mother cat and her three kittens playing near the footsteps of the Buddha.

So while we appreciated the monastery, the kids enjoyed an unexpected Himalayan cat show.

Everyone was happy.


Namika La and the Open Road

We continued toward Namika La Pass, at roughly 12,000 feet.

We were taking Diamox, and thankfully altitude sickness had not become a problem.

Instead, we could simply enjoy the drive.

Motorcycles wound their way along enormous mountain roads. Long ribbons of asphalt disappeared around bends. Every turn seemed to reveal another photograph.


Lamayuru and Moonland

Next came Lamayuru Monastery, dramatically positioned among the mountains.

We explored, took plenty of photographs and then experienced the strange landscape surrounding Lamayuru known as Moonland.

The pale, eroded mountains genuinely look otherworldly.

Conveniently, lunch came with a perfect view.


Thukpa Overlooking Moonland

We stopped at Tharapaling Restaurant, whose terrace overlooked Moonland.

Here we enjoyed thukpa, a warm Himalayan noodle soup, along with a vegetarian Ladakhi special meal.

After completely missing lunch the day before, we were improving.

Hot thukpa, cool mountain air and Moonland spread out in front of us—it was a memorable combination.


Sangam and Gurudwara Pathar Sahib

We continued to Sangam Point, where the Indus and Zanskar rivers meet.

From there, we visited Gurudwara Pathar Sahib.

The prasad was divine.

More importantly, the day gave Arya and Atharva an opportunity to experience both Buddhist and Sikh traditions firsthand.

Nobody needed a history or religion lesson.

They were simply learning by being there.

Our First Night in Leh

By evening, we reached Leh and checked into Leh Plaza, which turned out to be one of our favorite hotels of the trip.

Here we met Ali, who would be our driver for the next several days.

Another member of the team collected the kids' passports and paperwork required for the permits. They would get up early the following morning and stand in line to secure them for us.

Then we discovered another advantage of Leh Plaza.

Leh Market was a stone's throw away.

After dinner, all four of us went for a stroll through the night market.

After two days on mountain roads, it felt wonderful to wander around with no agenda.


August 3 — Leh → Khardung La → Diskit → Hunder → Nubra Valley

Day 3 began with fresh Ladakhi apricots that we had purchased earlier.

Ladakh is famous for its apricots, and they quickly became one of the flavors of the trip.

Photography Above Leh

Our first stop was the Leh Viewpoint, where Harshal pulled out his Nikon and gave Arya and Atharva an impromptu photography lesson.

With Leh below and mountains surrounding them, the kids couldn't have asked for a better classroom.

Then we began climbing toward Khardung La.

Thanks to the Diamox and gradual acclimatization, everyone was doing well with the altitude.

At Khardung La, we did the obvious thing:

took lots and lots of photographs.

On the descent, we made more spontaneous stops, including some mandatory yak photographs.



The Hairpin-Bend Café

Then someone needed a restroom.

That simple requirement led to one of our favorite accidental discoveries.

At an inconspicuous hairpin bend near Khardung La was a tiny café.

We stopped and ordered Kashmiri kahwa and Maggi.

Maggi was rapidly becoming a family favorite throughout this trip.

From the café, we could walk toward a serene stretch of water surrounded by mountains.

Holding a hot cup of tea, walking beside the water and looking at the mountains was simply magical.

Nobody had planned this stop.

Which made it even better.

We Remembered Lunch!

Determined not to repeat Day 1, we decided to eat lunch early.

At Khalsa Nubra, a newer Punjabi restaurant, we enjoyed a proper Punjabi meal before continuing toward Diskit.

Diskit Monastery

At Diskit Monastery, the enormous Maitreya Buddha dominated the landscape.

We explored the monastery itself, climbing through its different rooms and temples.

At the end, we were treated to lovely tea and coffee.

Then we noticed a huge crowd gathering.

An important senior monk was arriving, and people had assembled to welcome him.

Completely by chance, we found ourselves there at exactly the right time and managed to catch a glimpse of him.


Camels in the Himalayas

Next came the Hunder Sand Dunes.

Sand dunes surrounded by Himalayan mountains are strange enough.

Add double-humped Bactrian camels and the landscape becomes almost surreal.

All four of us went for a camel ride.


Snow Leopard

That evening, we checked into Hotel Snow Leopard in Nubra Valley.

The hotel had a wonderful surprise:

apple and apricot trees growing right in the front yard.

We enjoyed another excellent dinner and met a family from the Netherlands traveling with their three children. We chatted over dinner and would meet them again at breakfast the following morning.

After dinner, Harshal, Arya and I walked five to seven minutes to a nearby artisan bazaar.

We loved its atmosphere and immediately decided:

Tomorrow, we were coming back with Atharva.


August 4 — Nubra → Shyok → Thang → Turtuk → Nubra

After breakfast, we followed the beautiful Shyok River toward Turtuk.

Streams tumbled down from the mountains to meet the river, providing endless reasons to stop for photographs.

Understanding a Soldier's Load

We stopped at the Shyok War Memorial, where we were able to see the equipment and heavy backpacks carried by soldiers serving at these altitudes.

Having now experienced the thin air ourselves, it was sobering to imagine carrying that weight through these mountains—and then having to fight while wearing it.

Thang and the Line of Control

We continued to Thang, a tiny village near the Line of Control.

From there, we could look across the LOC toward a Pakistani village and bunker while also seeing Indian positions on our side.

After hearing about the LOC throughout our lives, physically standing there and looking across it felt surreal.

Meanwhile, everyday village life continued around us.

We bought fruit, rosemary and tea from local women.

The Mukur-Thang Bridge

On our return journey, we stopped at an old, rickety bridge across the Shyok River near Mukur-Thang.

It looked equal parts fascinating and questionable.

Naturally, that made the experience even more fun.

Turtuk and Balti Pizza

Eventually, we reached Turtuk.

Food came first.

We stopped at Nomad Hunger, where we met and photographed the chef, who we were told had appeared on MasterChef India.

We tried Balti pizza and Balti noodles.

Then we began exploring.

The Village That Wins You Over

Turtuk was one of the most fascinating places we visited.

Apricot and walnut trees grow everywhere. Tiny pedestrian passages weave between houses. Water runs through channels alongside the paths.

There isn't one enormous attraction.

The village itself is the attraction.

Our first unusual stop was a traditional natural cold-storage structure, where the naturally cool environment is still used to preserve things such as butter.

But it was the elderly gentleman there—not the refrigerator—who made the experience memorable.

He told us his life story: growing up without much formal education, helping the Indian Army as a young man and eventually becoming estranged from his family.

He spoke directly to Arya and Atharva about the importance of caring for your parents.

It was unexpectedly touching.

Sometimes the best travel lessons don't come from museums.

They come from conversations.

Yabgo Palace and Turtuk's History

At Yabgo Palace, we learned more about the complicated history of Baltistan and the connections among Ladakh, Jammu and Kashmir, India, Pakistan and the larger Himalayan region.

Understanding the history made Turtuk's distinctive culture make much more sense.

By the time we left, Turtuk had completely won us over.

Back to the Bazaar

We returned to Snow Leopard for dinner.

Then we fulfilled our promise.

This time all four of us walked to the artisan bazaar.

There was live music, a wonderful atmosphere, and the kids shopped for T-shirts.

It was the perfect ending to our final evening in Nubra.


August 5 — Nubra → Shyok Route → Durbuk → Pangong Lake

After breakfast at Snow Leopard, we began our drive toward Pangong Lake, once again following the Shyok River.

We knew portions of the road could be rough.

We didn't know we were about to help build one.

We Built Our Own Road

At one badly damaged section, vehicles couldn't safely cross.

People started getting out of their cars.

Large rocks appeared.

Then smaller stones.

Drivers and travelers began working together to fill the broken section.

Harshal and I joined in.

For a few minutes, none of us was a tourist. We were simply strangers working together to create enough of a road for everyone to continue.

The camaraderie was instant.

Then came the satisfying part:

We climbed back into our vehicle and drove over the road we'd just helped build.

It may have been one of the most unexpected activities of the entire vacation.

Momos on the Way to Pangong

We continued toward Durbuk and eventually stopped at Himalaya Kitchen, close to Pangong.

Hot momos and kahwa were exactly what we needed.

Then we continued onward.

And finally Pangong appeared.

Pangong

No photograph quite prepares you for Pangong Lake.

The brilliant water against barren mountains is almost unreal.

We stopped for photographs before reaching Lemon Green Resort, our home for the night.

For the first time during the trip, it was seriously cold.

And waiting outside our cabin was another surprise.

Meet Peche

We met a four-month-old calf named Peche.

Arya and Atharva immediately fell in love.

Our unofficial animal tour now included kittens, yaks, camels and Peche.

We bundled up and walked down toward Pangong, where we took family photographs by the lake.

Afterward, we returned to Lemon Green and enjoyed dinner.

But the day's best sight came at 10 p.m.

The Milky Way

We walked outside and looked up.

Away from city lights, the sky above Pangong was extraordinary.

And then we realized:

We could see the Milky Way with our naked eyes.

No telescope.

No photograph.

Just us, the mountains, Pangong and an unbelievably dark Himalayan sky.

There wasn't much to say.

We simply stood there and looked.


August 6 — Pangong → Chang La → Thiksey → Leh

The next morning, Harshal and I woke up early and went for a quiet walk beside Pangong near Maan village.

Without the daytime crowds, the lake felt completely different.

We eventually returned to Lemon Green and joined Arya and Atharva for breakfast.

Our breakfasts throughout the trip were wonderfully familiar and comforting—often poha or upma, along with puri and sabzi.

Then it was time to leave Pangong.

Sort of.

Because first we needed more photographs.

One Last Drive Along Pangong

We stopped several times along the lake as the changing light created entirely different shades of blue.

We also encountered a wonderful surprise:

a statue of Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj.

For our Maharashtrian family, finding Shivaji Maharaj here in Ladakh was particularly meaningful, connected to the presence of the Maratha regiment in the Pangong region.

First Marathi-speaking soldiers in Kargil.

Now Shivaji Maharaj beside Pangong.

Little pieces of Maharashtra kept finding us in Ladakh.

As we continued, there were more scenic stops with wild horses and yaks before the road began climbing toward another major mountain pass.

Chang La

We reached Chang La Pass, another of Ladakh's spectacular high-altitude crossings.

By now we had crossed Zoji La, Namika La and Khardung La.

Yet somehow, another high mountain pass still didn't feel ordinary.

After Chang La, we began descending and stopped for a meal at Ibex Restaurant.

Then came one of the great cultural experiences of our journey.

A Rare Experience at Thiksey Monastery

We arrived at Thiksey Monastery at exactly the right time.

The monks were gathered for prayers.

We watched as monks ranging from a little boy to elderly men sat together in straight lines.

Then the sounds began.

Chanting.

Drums.

Conch shells.

And a long, trumpet-like traditional Buddhist instrument whose deep sound filled the monastery.

We had already visited several Buddhist monasteries during the trip.

But this was different.

We weren't simply looking at the monastery.

We were watching its traditions being lived.

It felt like a rare privilege to be there.

That evening, we returned to Leh Plaza, relaxed, ate dinner, took another short stroll through the market and retired early.

Tomorrow we were leaving the car behind.


August 7 — Leh → Skiu → Sara → Markha Valley

We woke early and drove approximately two hours to Skiu Village, where we met our trekking guide, Nima.

Nima carried something we were very happy never to need:

an oxygen cylinder.

He was an experienced guide who had scaled multiple mountains around Ladakh and turned out to be excellent company.

As we walked, he recommended future hiking destinations, including areas in Sikkim.

But some of the most interesting conversations were about his family.

His daughter was in the UK.

His son was a Buddhist monk.

After spending the previous afternoon watching monks praying at Thiksey, it was fascinating to hear from a father about what life as a monk actually entails.

Walking Into Markha Valley

Our original plan called for an approximately 11-kilometer hike to Sara Village.

Immediately, Ladakh felt different on foot.

Instead of watching mountains through a car window, we were walking beneath them.

We followed trails, crossed streams and passed small settlements surrounded by an almost overwhelming amount of open space.

Lunch and the Seabuckthorn Experiment

Along the way, we stopped at the Skiu Women's Cooperative for lunch.

I decided to try seabuckthorn juice.

It was an interesting local experience.

Unfortunately, it didn't sit particularly well with me later during the hike.

Perhaps not my finest pre-trekking beverage decision.

Sara and More Kittens

We reached Sara Village around 3 p.m.

There, after some very welcome tea and coffee, Arya and Atharva discovered:

two kittens.

By now it was official.

The secondary theme of this vacation was definitely animals.

Cats and kittens at Mulbekh.

Yaks.

Bactrian camels.

Wild horses.

Peche.

And now Sara's kittens.

According to the itinerary, we were supposed to stay in Sara that night.

Instead, we made a decision that seemed perfectly reasonable at 3 p.m.

Why not complete tomorrow's trek today too?

Two Days of Trekking in One

We put our packs back on and continued toward Markha Village.

The afternoon became evening.

And we kept walking.

Arya was doing fine.

Atharva was doing fine.

Harshal was doing fine.

I was increasingly less fine.

We finally reached Markha at approximately 7:30 p.m.

I was wiped out.

The other three somehow seemed perfectly functional.

And our timing couldn't have been better.

Almost as soon as we entered our homestay, the rain began pouring outside and darkness descended over the valley.

We had made it.

Dinner on the Floor

That evening, we sat cross-legged, family-style, in the dining area.

We were served a wonderfully satisfying meal of roti, sabzi and fried rice.

After everything we had walked that day, it tasted fantastic.

We also struck up conversations with fellow European travelers, including people with connections to the Netherlands and Belgium and a family member working at an embassy in Delhi.

Once again, complete strangers from different corners of the world had somehow ended up sharing stories around a table in a tiny Himalayan village.

A Very Different Kind of Hotel

Our Markha accommodation was a true homestay.

And basic meant basic.

We slept on traditional rugs and bedding.

The toilet was essentially a hole in the floor with no plumbing.

There were none of the conveniences that had surrounded us at Leh Plaza or Snow Leopard.

And that produced one of the most satisfying moments of the entire trip.

Arya and Atharva began talking about how privileged their everyday lives were back in the United States.

For Harshal and me, that realization alone made the experience worthwhile.

Sometimes you can tell children a hundred times to appreciate what they have.

Sometimes a night in a remote Himalayan village explains it much better.

Exhausted, we went to sleep.


August 8 — Markha → Sara → Leh

The next morning, we woke up in Markha Valley, had breakfast at our homestay and prepared to start walking again.

There was, of course, one consequence to our brilliant decision to combine two trekking days into one:

we now had to walk back.

We retraced our route toward Sara Village, seeing the valley from the opposite direction.

Eventually, we reached our pickup point and transitioned from hiking boots back to four wheels.

After the simplicity of the Markha homestay, returning to Leh Plaza felt remarkably luxurious.

There was no ambitious sightseeing plan.

No mountain pass.

No monastery to climb.

No road to repair.

We simply relaxed and packed our bags.

The next morning, we were going home.


August 9 — Leh → Delhi → Navi Mumbai → Home

The next morning, we said goodbye to Ladakh and flew from Leh to Delhi.

We had a long enough layover to make one final family decision.

Why sit in an airport when there was still time for one more mini-adventure?

We hired a cab and headed out into Delhi.

Time was limited, so this was sightseeing at family-road-trip speed.

We managed to see Qutub Minar from outside.

Then the Bahá'í Lotus Temple from outside.

And naturally, we needed one final food experience.

We stopped at a Delhi chaat corner and enjoyed some chaat before heading back toward the airport.

Later that evening, we boarded our flight to Navi Mumbai.

By the time we reached home, it was late at night.

And suddenly, after nine days of mountains, monasteries, lakes, rivers, deserts, villages and trekking trails, our Ladakh adventure was over.


What We Brought Home From Ladakh

We went to Ladakh expecting spectacular scenery.

We certainly got that.

But looking back, the famous sights aren't necessarily the memories that stand out most.

I remember the little boats surrounding our shikara on Dal Lake.

I remember hearing Marathi at the Kargil War Memorial and discovering that a soldier was from Thane—and then carrying his bag home for him.

I remember three kittens playing beneath the Buddha at Mulbekh.

Hot Maggi and kahwa at an anonymous hairpin bend near Khardung La.

The enormous packs carried by soldiers in terrain where simply walking can leave you breathless.

Standing at Thang and looking across the Line of Control.

The old gentleman in Turtuk telling Arya and Atharva to remember the importance of their parents.

Four of us riding Bactrian camels through a Himalayan desert.

Harshal and me moving rocks with complete strangers to build enough of a road for our vehicles to cross.

Peche waiting outside our cabin at Pangong.

Standing outside at 10 p.m. and seeing the Milky Way with our naked eyes.

Finding Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj thousands of kilometers from Maharashtra.

The sound of drums, conch shells, horns and chanting monks at Thiksey.

Nima walking beside us and telling us about his mountains, his daughter and his son's life as a monk.

More kittens in Sara.

Walking much farther than I thought I wanted to walk.

Arriving exhausted in Markha just as the rain began pouring.

And perhaps most importantly, hearing our children recognize, without being prompted, just how fortunate and comfortable their everyday lives really are.

Those weren't itinerary items.

They were the trip.

We started on August 1 as four travelers with hotel reservations, drivers and a list of places we were supposed to visit.

Nine days later, we returned home with hundreds of photographs, tired legs, a soldier's bag headed toward Thane, plenty of stories and a much greater appreciation for this extraordinary corner of India.

The mountains were spectacular.

Pangong was unforgettable.

Markha tested us.

Turtuk surprised us.

And the people we met along the way added dimensions to the journey that no itinerary could possibly have planned.

Perhaps that was our biggest lesson from Ladakh.

Plan the route. Book the hotels. Know where you're going.

But always leave enough room for the unexpected.

Because sometimes the unexpected becomes the part you remember most.

December 23, 2025

Counties we have visited till 2025

Together or independently 

1 India 
2 USA
3 Canada
4 Mexico
5 Costa Rica
6 Ecuador
7 Peru
8 Argentina (H)
9 France
10 Spain
11 Portugal 
12 Ireland ( H)
13 Netherlands (HAA)
14 Belgium  (HAA)
15 Germany  (HAA)
16 UK ( H)
17 Turkey (V)
18 Switzerland 
19 Liechtenstein 
20 Saudi Araba ( H)
21 UAE
22 Qatar ( V)
23 Tanzania
24 China (H)
25 Australia 
26 New Zealand 



July 12, 2025

Trivandram to Madurai-South India road trip 2025

Traveling with family—especially with a teenager—is always an unpredictable adventure. Over the course of several days, we explored bustling cities, ghost towns, sacred temples, underwater life, and backwater serenity. Each day had its own rhythm, shaped by temple bells, spontaneous jokes, and the aroma of delicious local food. 

Here's our journey, day by day:

First four days of our trip was when Harshal was working from Bangalore and we (Atharva and I) made this a mother-son trip, meeting Harshal for breakfast and then dinner each day. Arya sadly missed the entire India trip due to her Summer Bridge Session at Penn State!

Bangalore Day 1-4 Blog- Mother Son Trip 
http://vaiharshalttravels.blogspot.com/2025/07/namma-bangalore_12.html

Bangalore Day 1-4 Photos https://photos.app.goo.gl/n9DwKyKdzq9jZGSN7


Follow along with photos for Day 5 onward, when Harshal joined us and we officially started our family trip. Photos link below for days 5 onward.
https://photos.app.goo.gl/3YoLMszz8UuPT2Yo7

🌊 Day 5 – Temples, Textiles & Backwater Bliss

Thiruvananthapuram | Padmanabhaswamy Temple | Napier and Raja Ravi Varma Museum Museum | Poovar Backwaters | Golden Beach | Aazhimala Shiva Temple

Our first full day in Thiruvananthapuram was as rich and layered as a Kanjeevaram saree.

We started early with breakfast at our seaside resort. The ocean was too rough for a swim, so we simply admired it—wild, untamed, and roaring its good morning. That power of nature was humbling, and we let it set the tone for a grounded, unhurried day.

Our first errand of the day was shopping for handloom treasures because we were informed that a saree and traditional dhoti were a must— later we realized this was true but rental options existed! No complaints on forced shopping!

We picked up a beautiful saree and a traditional lungi for Atharva and Harshal , both woven with local pride and elegance. Harshal even purchased a traditional Kerala Saree for me as a gift! Love these unexpected gestures that catch me by surprise often! Grateful and thankful, especially given we are at a point where it's almost hard to remember how many years of marriage are we celebrating:)

Then came the spiritual centerpiece of the day: a darshan at Padmanabhaswamy Temple. With our special seva ticket, we were able to get an up-close glimpse of the majestic reclining Vishnu, resting on Anantha, the cosmic serpent. The sanctity of the space, the echo of chants, and the sheer history enveloping the temple gave us goosebumps. It was one of those experiences where you don’t speak much—you just feel. No pictures are allowed inside the temple, so these moments are captured only by our sensory organs!

Next, we explored Napier Museum and the Raja Ravi Varma Art Gallery. The contrast between royal oil paintings and ancient artifacts painted a vivid picture of Kerala’s layered history. Atharva, curious as always, asked us questions about the stories behind Ravi Varma’s mythological paintings, particularly fascinated by the blend of realism and divinity in them. Harshal read the stories out loud as each of the picture had a QR code to quickly pull up the narrative and info. Along the way we had enjoyed a cold ice cream and flavored milk.

Hunger hit by mid-afternoon, and we settled in for a vegetarian thali at Aryaas Park Restaurant. A simple way to remember our princess who was missing all of this fun. Simple, satisfying, and packed with flavors lunch Thali that reminded us why South Indian meals are so nourishing. The guy who was serving us rice even insisted that we were not eating enough... hospitality at its best!

In the late afternoon, we drove to Poovar for a tranquil backwater boat ride. It was one of those moments that felt like we were inside a nature documentary. We saw a rare kingfisher, an eagle circling overhead, a water crow, and even migratory birds from Russia—quiet visitors from a world away. One of the boatmen pointed out a strange, mango-like fruit known as the “suicide fruit”—deadly if consumed, beautiful from a distance. Apparently during covid a family of four ate this fruit and soon enough with blood pressure dropping and cardiac arrest, they all perished. Dark story! We enquired if any tourists had consumed this fruit by mistake and made a mental note to self- don't eat random unknown fruit:)

Next we stopped for coffee at a floating restaurant, gently rocking as the sun began its descent. It felt surreal—just us, coffee in hand, surrounded by echoing bird calls and, as Atharva said, "A weird man throwing pakodas at crows." There should be signs of not feeding wildlife but sadly people may ignore those signs and proceed to do so anyway! 

Before dusk faded completely, we made a quick stop at Golden Beach to catch the sunset—a radiant close to the day. A fruit vendor was selling coconut juice that was enjoyed too and then we saw him pack his shop up in his boat:) 

There was one last adventure left: we rushed to make it to Aazhimala Shiva Temple before it closed. The dramatic cliffside temple, overlooking the ocean, was the perfect spiritual bookend to a day that had already felt full of grace.

Dinner was simple and humble: a sweet ladoo and leftover rice from the dhaba the day before. Somehow, it was all we needed.


🌅 Day 6 – Oil Lamps, Rock Temples & the Road to Kanyakumari

Thiruvananthapuram | Vizhinjam | Padmanabhapuram Palace |  Kanyakumari

Day 6 started while the world was still asleep. At 2:00 am, Harshal and I made a spontaneous yet soul-stirring decision—to attend the Nirmalya Aarti at Padmanabhaswamy Temple, which begins at 3:30 am.

The temple, bathed in the soft glow of countless oil lamps flickering in massive brass diyas, was nothing short of heavenly. The sanctum glimmered with gold and silence, broken only by chants and the rhythmic ringing of bells. We took one darshan round, but the energy pulled us in again, and on our second loop, we were blessed to witness the Abhishekam (ritual bathing of the deity). Watching water, milk, and sandalwood flow over the ancient idol in perfect ritual precision was transcendent—the kind of divine experience words can’t fully capture.

We returned to the hotel by 5:00 am, quietly slipping back into bed while Atharva continued to sleep, blissfully unaware of our early morning adventure.

After a short nap, we were all up again by 7:00 am, ready for the day ahead. Post-breakfast, we visited Vizhinjam’s Rock-Cut Shiva Temple, an ancient cave sanctuary carved into stone. Its serenity stood in contrast to the roaring waves we later saw from the nearby lighthouse. "Dil ka bhavar kare pukaar" was the song playing in my head as we walked up the spiral staircase of the lighthouse. We captured many photos and video and compared them to the captured photos as we landed in Trivandram from 10, 000 ft. The black sand beach shimmered under the sun—a dark, mysterious beauty that Atharva found fascinating and reminded Harshal and I of the black sand beach we visited in Hawaii many years ago.

Next, we hit the road toward Padmanabhapuram Palace. On the way, we stopped for banana chips and aromatic Kerala spices—the car quickly filled with the heady scent of cardamom, pepper, and nostalgia.

We made it to the 400-year-old wooden palace just before lunch closing time. If you are visiting South remember to check timings. Temples open at bhrahmamuhurtam ( 3 am or 4 am) and usually all attractions are closed during lunch time. Inside, we wandered through grand courtyards, narrow teakwood corridors, intricately carved doorways, and polished floors that echoed with centuries of history. Atharva was especially intrigued by the fact that we had to be barefoot our entire visit, including the cafe and hold your breath- the restroom too! Here we had Dairy Day Triple Chocolate bar- an excellent ice cream that we looked for the rest of the trip! 

Lunch was delightfully improvised: ice creams, fresh coconut water, and tadgola (ice apple)—a sweet and cooling reward on a warm day. I picked up a unique souvenir - a mud oil lamp that you can fill up from bottom and it has no stopper:) 

From there, we made a quick stop at Suchindram Temple, only to find it closed—but this detour didn’t faze us. We drove on to our final destination for the day: Kanyakumari.

We checked into Annai Resort & Spa, where a golf cart whisked us to our villa, welcomed with shell necklaces and sea breezes. Our villa, nestled next to the infinity pool, felt like a hidden gem at the southernmost tip of India.

While I took a refreshing dip, I saw peacocks take him flight—a sight as poetic as it sounds. Harshal and Atharva hit the gym, channeling a different kind of energy.

Later, we regrouped for one of the trip’s most magical moments: watching the sunset over the ocean at Kanyakumari, where three seas meet. The sky painted itself in pinks and golds as the sun dipped behind the horizon—a moment that felt both eternal and fleeting. We took some pictures of making heart with our hands around the setting sun...some cheesy fun because why not! We had gotten ourselves a premium spot on the rock and occasionally we were sprayed with some ocean water as waves hit the giant rock and ocean foam floated in the air! 

Dinner at the resort restaurant was cozy and satisfying. Atharva enjoyed a club sandwich and Harshal and I had our standard Manchow soup ( 1 by 2- something that's common in India) and Methi Malai Paneer with tandoori roti and lachha paratha. We mused about the fact that no restaurant was offering a particular item we both remembered - Rumali roti. We ended the night full—of food, of memories, of peace.

🌄 Day 7 – Sunrise, Shlokas & a Boat Ride to Enlightenment (with Bollywood Beats)

Kanyakumari | Suchindram Temple | Lotus Lake | Vivekananda Rock Memorial | Kanyakumari Temple | Triveni Sangam

We began Day 7 before the world stirred. Harshal and I laced up our shoes for a jog from our hotel to the Sunrise Point, catching the first light at the southernmost tip of India. Watching the sun rise where the Arabian Sea, Bay of Bengal, and Indian Ocean meet was not just beautiful—it felt significant, grounding, and deeply spiritual.

Back at the hotel, we woke Atharva, and all three of us headed to breakfast. The spread at Annai Resort was as lavish as ever—fresh dosas, idiappam with curry, and a full continental selection. We ate heartily, knowing we had a packed day ahead.

Our first visit was to the Suchindram Temple, and this time, it was open—and what an experience it was! A guide walked us through the murti of Brahma, Vishnu, and Mahesh, combined into a single, unique deity. The stone musical pillars fascinated us—each one resonating a different note when struck, including one with Sa-Re-Ga-Ma-Pa-Dha-Ni-Sa, and another with rain-like tones that felt like monsoon music carved into stone.

On the way back, we stopped by a lotus lake, and the sight of water droplets gliding off lotus leaves reminded me of Shloka #4 of Bhaja Govindam: nalini dalagata jalam atitaralam... Life, like that droplet, is fleeting—pause-worthy wisdom in the middle of a road trip.

Once back in Kanyakumari, Jaju dropped us off at the ferry terminal to head toward the Vivekananda Rock Memorial. There was a long wait for the regular ferry, but around noon, we learned about a special AC boat option that would also stop at Vattakottai Fort. It was pricier—but immediate.

We boarded...and then unexpected hilarity ensued. As soon as the boat started, loudspeakers blared Bollywood dance tracks—starting with none other than "Chikni Chameli". We looked at each other in disbelief and burst out laughing. The irony of heading to the sacred rock where Swami Vivekananda meditated for three days, with bass drops and item numbers in the background, was priceless.

We had only had coconut water since breakfast, and it was nearly 3:00 PM by the time we reached the rock. Hunger forgotten, we soaked in the grandeur of the memorial, walked to the Kanyakumari Foot Mandir, and sat briefly in the meditation hall—a peaceful silence that somehow cut through the day’s noise.

From there, we crossed to the Thiruvalluvar Statue—the towering poet-philosopher watching over the ocean. The glass bridge en route to the statue caught our eye, both modern and surreal in this ancient setting. Swami Vivekananda is my guru so I had to buy some books. Harshal reminded me that I already had a library full of Swami Vivekananda books back home but the four books ok Yoga were purchased and although it started as a joke, I fully intend to follow through this resolve for the next 1000 days " I will not buy a single object for myself". 

After another shorter wait line and ferry ride back to the mainland, we were beyond ready to eat. We chose Seaview Restaurant, where Harshal and I ordered Malai Kofta, and Atharva dove into his favorite—Hakka noodles. Dessert was a vibrant sundae trio—chocolate, mango, and butterscotch—sweet enough to earn smiles all around.

Evening brought a divine final touch: a tour of the Kanyakumari Temple, rich with stories of Goddess Kanyakumari’s penance, valor, and light. The guide’s narration made legends come alive as we walked through ancient halls filled with devotion and lore.

We ended our day at the Triveni Sangam, where three oceans meet and so did our moods—peaceful, playful, and fulfilled. We passed by the Gandhi Memorial and Bharat Mata statue, taking them in from the outside. We ( Harshal and I) watch Shiv Shakti series on Colors and a few episodes were focused on Kanyakumari story from the puranas. At Triveni Sangam as we watched the waves hit the shore and specifically, a little nandi and Shiva lingam moorti on the shore, Harshal narrated the story of Kanyakumari to Atharva. On the last day, when I asked Atharva his top 10 of this trip, this particular memory made it to the list. Such moments make vacations special as we teach and learn from each other! 

And just when we thought we were done, Atharva and I remembered something important—those Dairy Day triple chocolate bars we’d seen outside the lunch spot. Yes, we went back. Yes, we each got one. Because two ice creams a day is totally justified on vacation.

As we unwrapped our second treats and watched the golden sky fade, Jaju pulled up—right on time, as always. We returned to the resort, took long showers, and sank into our beds with the sweet, salty scent of the ocean still lingering in the air.


🛕 Day 8 – Pier Hikes, 22 Sacred Wells & an Impromptu Pilgrimage

Kanyakumari → Rameswaram | Pamban Bridge | A.P.J. Abdul Kalam Memorial | Ramanathaswamy Temple

We greeted Day 8 long before the sun had fully stretched its rays. Harshal and I laced up for another pre-dawn walk to Kanyakumari’s Sunrise Point, clambering over the massive pier rocks—an unexpected little adventure that jolted us awake. Predictably, Atharva opted for extra sleep over a 5 a.m., 5 km trek (teen priorities remain undefeated). This was an excellent sunrise compared to the day before because we actually left another hour earlier and got to the furthermost point on the pier.

Back at Annai Resort, we indulged in a final seaside breakfast—fluffy dosas, idiappam with curry, and continental treats—before beginning the 5½-hour drive to Rameswaram. Our only pit stop was a happy accident: Bay Leaf at La Palmera by the Sea, an elegant oasis amid an otherwise meagre highway lineup of hole-in-the-wall cafés. Good coffee, ocean breeze, and clean restrooms felt like luxury on wheels.

Checking In — and Checking Boxes Early

By 3 p.m. we rolled into Hotel Vinayaga by Poppy’s, smack in the heart of Rameswaram. We’d planned to rest… but momentum took over. Within hours we’d ticked off two of tomorrow’s three must-sees:

Pamban Bridge – that sweep of steel and sea that still feels like engineering wizardry.

A. P. J. Abdul Kalam Memorial – a serene tribute to India’s “Missile Man” that left Atharva quietly impressed. We wondered why they would not allow photographa of this particular attraction because would we not want to share these with the world proudly!?

Our trip coordinator Saurabh from Isha Travels called to confirm all was smooth—his daily check-ins are a thoughtful touch.

The Main Event: Ramanathaswamy Temple on South Calendar based Shravan Monday

Armed with my research—and ignoring pushy touts quoting ₹3,000+ for “special darshan packages”—we seized the auspicious first Monday of Shravan for an evening visit to Ramanathaswamy Temple.

Our car sported a flat tyre on arrival, so we bumped through town in a bright yellow rickshaw, hair flying—a perfect Rameswaram vignette. We also mused on how these Rickshaw was considerably larger than ones in Mumbai.

The outside air hovered around 111 °F (44 °C), so the famous 22 kund snān felt positively cool and divine.

A local helper we’d negotiated with doused us bucket-by-bucket, guiding us well-to-well as we tasted the distinct sweetness or salinity of each sacred spring. For a modest extra tip he also steered us into an up-close darshan of the Jyotirlinga, proudly declaring it was “as close as Modi-ji got.” Atharva loved the water-quest aspect and was first to get bucketful water on his head at each well! 

Dinner was refreshingly plain: roti, dal, and sabzi in the hotel’s veg restaurant. We wound down streaming our favorite episode of Shiv Shakti—Mahalsa and Martand’s tale echoing our day’s devotion. Atharva ranked this temple experience his #2 highlight after the giant Azhimala Shiva statue—high praise from a newly minted well-water connoisseur. His ranking had changed considerably by end of the trip! 

With tomorrow suddenly free (thanks to our over-achievement), Dhanushkodi and a handful of hidden gems await. 


🌊 Day 9 – Sleeping In, Sacred Sands & Scuba Surprises

Rameswaram | Dhanushkodi | Pamban Bridge | Bay of Bengal Scuba Discovery Lesson | Abdul Kalam House | Temple Walks

Today unfolded in true vacation fashion—slow morning, wild afternoon, peaceful evening.

We finally slept in, reaching breakfast at 9 a.m. instead of our usual early-bird 7 a.m. routine. The pongal was warm and comforting, and the South Indian spread was, as always, fresh and flavorful.

Our first stop was the mysterious ghost town of Dhanushkodi, where the Ram Setu stretches into the sea. The land felt windswept and ancient, like it was holding onto stories of another time.

On the way back, we paused at the Vibhishan Temple, where we continued our ritual of coconut water—a cool, refreshing break under the shade of temple trees. I had read on several blogs that the shack nearby that promised Ram Setu stone was a sham but the one in Hanuman temple was the real deal. So we skipped this part entirely.

Back at the hotel, Atharva and I changed into swimwear for something Atharva had never done before: scuba diving.

We signed up for a Discover Scuba 2-hour course with Quest Academy, crossing the Pamban Bridge once again. Our instructors, Prithvi and Daniel, were outstanding—breaking down gear use, hand signals, and safety steps like pros.

We first practiced in knee-deep water, then descended to a 30-foot depth in the Bay of Bengal. It was incredible.

We saw sea cucumbers, schools of fish, and underwater seagrass swaying in the currents. Atharva spotted a crab hauling a fish, and described how the scuba guide flicked sand to have the crab walk across the ocean floor. 

We also saw a few plastic bags on the seabed, which was a disappointing but important reminder of how much care our oceans still need.

After surfacing, we were offered fresh lime juice—sour, sweet, and well-earned. Then we headed back to the hotel for showers and a rest.

When Harshal joined us, we all went down to the café. More coffee. French fries. Because, why not? Atharva rounded out his evening with a grilled sandwich and an ice cream.

Then Harshal and I took a walk through town, stopping at Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam’s house, now a small museum. The displays had more personal items and several poems written by Kalam himself. I was drawn to the poem about the Arjun’s tree, while Harshal loved a quote that read:

 “Learning gives creativity. Creativity leads to thinking. Thinking provides knowledge. Knowledge makes you great.”

From there, we strolled to the Ram and Lakshman Tirtham, small sacred ponds tucked within the city, and finally caught the evening aarti at the Nataraja Temple—gentle bells, flame offerings, and calming chants.

Back at the hotel,  I spotted a giant Carrom board size snakes and ladders board in the lobby. Naturally, we played a quick game—pure old-school fun, filled with sneaky wins and near-misses.

Later, as our favorite Shiv Shakti episode aired, we huddled up to watch. Afterward, we turned to cricket highlights, laughing over wild dismissals and Atharva’s bold (and hilariously off) pronunciation of Indian player names.

None of us were especially hungry, so we just ate  the leftover chole and rotis from lunch, and ended the night on a full heart and simple meal.


🕌 Day 10 – Floating Rocks, Forgotten Kings & Foodie Fixes

Rameswaram → Madurai | Panchamukhi Hanuman Temple | Nayakkar Palace | Meenakshi Amman Temple

Today began like many of our mornings on this trip—with a spiritual start and a sleepy teen.

Harshal and I made it to the Panchamukhi Hanuman Mandir at 6:15 a.m., and to our surprise, we had the whole temple to ourselves. The priests were just beginning their morning rituals, and the serenity was unmistakable.

The five-faced Hanuman idols stood tall, glowing in the early morning light. But what made it unforgettable was getting to touch and lift the famous floating stones—the ones believed to have been used in the Ramayana to build the Ram Setu.

Their lightness was mystifying, and the moment, surreal.

🍽️ Sleep, Showers & Sibling Chats

Back at the hotel, we woke Atharva, who missed the temple but was happy to be included in the post-darshan recap over breakfast. We all took turns getting ready, while chatting with Arya on the phone—she always brings energy, even from miles away.

We then made a quick stop at the Hanuman temple again so Atharva could at least have darshan, though by now, the floating rock had been sealed under glass. He didn’t seem too heartbroken. 

🚗 Onward to Madurai

The 3.5-hour drive to Madurai flew by. And strangely enough, we experienced déjà vu—our hotel here was also a Poppy’s, but this one felt grander, with an upscale restaurant and a fancy cake shop on-site.

Though none of us were especially hungry, biryani and mapo tofu were ordered for lunch (because travel hunger is sneaky), and we topped it off by treating ourselves to cake from the lobby bakery—because why not?

🏛️ Two Madurai Icons, One Hit, One Miss

Our first outing was to the Thirumalai Nayakkar Palace. While the guidebook promised Indo-Saracenic grandeur, reality had... less to offer. A handful of impressive pillars and painted ceilings, sure—but the palace had largely been stripped of its essence.

Fun (?) fact from our guide: the last king’s grandson squandered the family fortune on over 200 mistresses, and most of the palace was dismantled and moved to Trichy.

Thankfully, our next stop was the showstopper: Meenakshi Amman Temple.

With a knowledgeable guide, we learned about its layered history, vibrant carvings, and sacred rituals. The temple was buzzing with energy yet felt timeless, grounded, and grand. The gopurams were painted poetry.

🧊 Sweet Cooldowns & Solo Exploring

After the temple, we made a quick stop for Jigarthanda, Madurai’s most famous chilled drink—somewhere between a milkshake, falooda, and dessert experiment. Atharva found it “weird but interesting,” which is probably the best description it could get.

Back at the hotel, Harshal jumped into a meeting, and I went out to explore Saravana Superstore—a 7-story maze of jewelry, garments, furniture, groceries, and more. Imagine a temple of commerce with aisle-wide darshan of glittering goods.

🥘 Dinner, Desserts & Laughs

For dinner, Atharva and I shared a cozy table while Harshal wrapped up work. We ordered cilantro lime tofu, paneer lababdar, and yes—more pastries for dessert. Because some nights should end on a sweet note. And this one definitely did.


Day 11 – A Gentle Goodbye from Madurai

The last day of our trip turned out to be the most relaxing—at least for Harshal and Atharva, who decided to skip the morning plan I had enthusiastically chalked out. No guilt, no complaints—just two happy guys sleeping in while I set off for one final spiritual adventure.

The breakfast spread at Poppy's was a fitting finale: vast and thoughtful, featuring everything from health drinks to overnight fermented traditional delicacies served in clay pots. I quickly grabbed a bite and headed out with Jaju, our ever-reliable driver, toward Alagar Kovil, a serene Vishnu temple nestled in the hills.

The drive was as scenic as it was calming. Upon arrival, I was greeted by an army of monkeys who seemed more territorial than spiritual. I opted for the Rs. 15 fast darshan and unexpectedly found myself in a line where people were being doused with Ganga jal as part of a ritual purification. Not entirely in the mood for a public shower, I politely asked a policeman how to sidestep the "splash zone" and moved swiftly to the darshan line.

As if that wasn’t enough excitement, my attention was drawn to a nearby family performing a dramatic ritual—a woman was holding what looked like a sword and dancing wildly while her family chanted loudly, creating a surreal scene. I found myself accidentally wedged between two dancing women, clutching my bag while trying to look as reverent as possible.

After receiving the customary vibhuti, I descended the temple steps, only to notice a behavioral pattern among the monkeys—male monkeys were snatching food from the mothers, especially those with babies. To restore a sliver of justice, I bought a Rs. 10 pack of chana and handed it directly to a mother monkey nearby. The dominant male glared at me like I’d just insulted his entire monkey lineage. I smirked and walked away victorious.

We made a quick stop at the Murugan Mandir, took in the peaceful atmosphere, and returned to the hotel. After packing up, we said our goodbyes to Jaju, gifting him a Lindt chocolate bar for his daughters—a small thank you for his kind and calm presence throughout the journey.

At 1 PM, we headed to the airport, hearts full and bags packed with memories.

As we took off, I reflected on the days behind us—temples, beaches, historic wonders, wildlife, and endless flavors. But most of all, I’ll remember the laughs we shared, the unexpected moments, and the way travel—especially in India—pulls you into a story much larger than yourself.

Until the next adventure. 🌺

Photos of all Day 4- Day 11 link again for quick reference 

https://photos.app.goo.gl/3YoLMszz8UuPT2Yo7

Namma Bangalore

From Breakfasts to Brains: A Mother-Son Getaway in Bangalore

4 Days of Laughter, Learning & Bonding with Atharva

There’s something incredibly rewarding about traveling one-on-one with your child—not as a parent always giving instructions, but as two companions exploring the world together. Over four unforgettable days in Bangalore, my 14-year-old son Atharva and I did just that. What began as a spontaneous adventure became a treasured collection of laughter, discoveries, and little everyday moments that stitched us closer together.


🌇 Day 1 – Delays, Detours & a Dash of Nostalgia

Whitefield | Kadugodi Tree Park | Phoenix Marketcity | Long Boat Brewing Co | Dot Café

We started our adventure with a royal breakfast spread at Aloft Whitefield—one of those generous global buffets that makes even jetlag seem bearable. Atharva loaded up happily, and we felt ready to take on the day.

Only—our driver showed up two hours late, and with it came our official initiation into Bangalore traffic. Not ideal, but we made the best of it with a side visit to Kadugodi Tree Park, a peaceful pocket of green just minutes from the chaos. The real surprise? Outdoor exercise machines scattered throughout the park. Atharva loved the long-stride walker, which had him swinging like a giant with cartoon legs. I laughed so hard I nearly cried.

Later, Atharva went solo at Phoenix Marketcity, where he confidently roamed, shopped at Van Heusen and Nike, and grabbed a bite at Burger King. Independent and content.

Meanwhile, I had a heartwarming reunion at Long Boat Brewing Co. with some of my oldest friends—Vaijoo, Sindhu, Jovita, Smita, and Sreeja. The conversation flowed as if no time had passed, and the joy of reconnecting with people who knew you as a teenager is something else entirely.

We regrouped for dinner at Dot Café with Harshal, tired but smiling. A strange, funny, fulfilling first day in the city.


🏰 Day 2 – Royal Roads to Mysore: Palaces, Pachyderms & a Galloping Horse

Mysore Palace | Chamundi Hills | Brindavan Gardens | Ranganathaswamy Temple

We set out for a day trip to Mysore, roughly a 3-hour drive each way. Still jetlagged, we used the road time to nap in the backseat, bellies full from another Aloft breakfast.

Our first stop: the grandeur of Mysore Palace. We joined a guided tour and soaked in stories of the Wodeyar dynasty, crystal chandeliers, intricately carved ceilings, and royal courts. Atharva was more engaged than I expected, asking questions and absorbing the royal legacy.

Then came a memory I’ll never forget—we met Preeti and Chanchal, the palace elephants. We got to touch them, and I even sat atop one for a photo-op. It felt surreal—grounded yet majestic.

We picked up some fresh Mysore Pak, rich and golden, before heading toward Chamundeshwari Temple. The crowds were overwhelming, so we skipped the climb and instead enjoyed a traditional banana leaf lunch at a local restaurant. Watching Atharva wrestle with eating rice and rasam by hand was both endearing and hilarious.

Next stop: Brindavan Gardens, with a short break at a scenic dam viewpoint that offered a peaceful panoramic escape from the heat. The last stop was the Ranganathaswamy Temple, where Atharva topped off the day with a horse ride. The horse picked up speed unexpectedly, and for a few thrilling moments, he looked like a royal himself—laughing, slightly terrified, and completely alive.


🧠 Day 3 – Brains, Bargains & Barking Selfies

Cubbon Park | Commercial Street | NIMHANS Brain Museum | Friend’s Home Visit
Mood: Quirky, chaotic, and connection-filled

We started Day 3 on a gentle, green note at Cubbon Park, the city’s peaceful lungs. After yet another hearty breakfast at Aloft Whitefield, we walked under the canopies of rain trees, watching joggers, squirrels, and slow-moving sunlight. It was a rare, unhurried moment of quiet togetherness—just walking, chatting, and soaking in nature.

Then, we plunged into the exact opposite: the colorful chaos of Commercial Street. Atharva was all in—shopping for trendy tees and accessories—while I wandered through fabric shops and souvenir stalls. It was loud, busy, and everything you expect from a Bangalore street market.

Lunch was McDonald’s, because sometimes, familiarity is the best comfort. We cooled off, recharged, and braced for the most unusual part of our day: the NIMHANS Brain Museum.

What a trip! We touched real human organs—lungs, intestines, even brains in glass jars. Atharva kept repeating, “Wait, that’s an actual brain?!” Half-fascinated, half-freaked out, he soaked it all in. It was educational, eerie, and totally one-of-a-kind.

We ended the day on a heartwarming note: a visit to Vaijoo’s home. Her husband Vijay and their kids Ravi and Meera were wonderful hosts, and Atharva quickly bonded over snacks, jokes, and a round of indoor games. But the surprise star? Casper, their spirited dog who somehow took a selfie during our group photo—paw on the phone, tongue out, stealing the spotlight.

As we drove back through yet another round of evening traffic, Atharva leaned on my shoulder and said, “This was a weird and awesome day.” Exactly.


✈️ Day 4 – From City Streets to Seaside Breezes

Bangalore Airport | KTDC Samudra, Trivandrum | Punjabi Dhaba

Our final morning in Bangalore arrived with a mix of excitement and nostalgia. It was travel day to Trivandrum, where our mother-son adventure would soon become a full family vacation.

We reached Bangalore Airport with time to spare and marveled at its world-class layout. With shops and restaurants from around the globe, it felt like a city in itself. After some browsing, we landed at P.F. Chang’s—choosing comfort food with a desi twist: lettuce wraps, mapo tofu, spicy Hunan tofu, and Schezwan gobi. The mix of spice and familiarity hit the spot.

Our flight was delayed, but we finally landed in Trivandrum just before sunset. The breeze at KTDC Samudra resort was like a welcome hug, and our driver for the next 10 days—Jaju—greeted us with calm confidence.

We managed a few quick sunset photos by the beach, capturing the tail end of our special time together. Then, we stepped out for a casual dinner at a Punjabi dhaba, where the surprise hit of the night was the falooda—creamy, cold, and layered with childhood memories.


💛 Reflections: More Than a Trip

These four days in Bangalore weren’t just a getaway—they were a glimpse into who Atharva is becoming. Curious, independent, hilarious, and observant in ways that often catch me off guard. I watched him navigate new cities, try new foods, make friends, get lost in a palace story, pet an elephant, and even bond with a brain in a jar.

For me, this trip was also about pausing—stepping out of routine and simply being present with my son. No roles, no pressure. Just shared space, discovery, and joy.

Now, as we head into the next leg of our family vacation, I’ll carry these four days with me like a favorite photo: a little wrinkled, a little blurry, but forever vivid in my heart.

October 24, 2024

Spain and Portugal - Family Adventure with Castles, Cathedrals and Coast!

This was our second time visiting Spain and our first time in Portugal- and a road trip that spanned close to 2000 km across 7 days. Driving for nearly 20 hours was a breeze and the VW Golf rental car (relatively smaller and automatic) allowed us to easily visit all the spots with ease. A map of major locations on this trip is here.

Day 1 Madrid to Lisbon - Aug 8 

We took a redeye from Newark to Madrid- boarded the plane at 7pm. 6 hours later, we were in Madrid, where it was already 9am...maybe not the smartest of ideas given we had a 8+ hour drive in an unknown country but all worked out in the end! We had packed smart with our many packing cubes in two duffel bags. A quick stop to rent our vehicle and then a stop to get travel wifi for Portugal specifically. Our TMobile worked just fine in Spain!

Our first stop was Talavera de la Reina in Spain, renowned for its ceramics and pottery. Here we had a lovely sit-down lunch, strolled through the streets, and visited the ceramic museum. 

Our next stop was Merida in Spain, famous for its Roman ruins, including a well-preserved amphitheater and theater. It was very hot and we only survived for a little bit on our self-guided tour. Ice cream and lemonade refreshed on our way back to the car...a small stroll felt like eternity in the intense 100 degree heat. Thankfully, rest of our trip had perfect weather

In the evening, we reached Évora in Portugal. A UNESCO World Heritage site with well-preserved Roman and medieval architecture, including the Roman Temple and the Chapel of Bones. A very walkable city, Evora did not disappoint. With many cafes and restaurants and al fresco dining, we chose a pizza place for our meal. From here we drove straight to our hotel Moxy Lisbon City and called it a night. Lisbon was one of the two places where we had a two-night stay each! The room was a perfect family room that slept all four of us!

The funniest conversation was with Harshal, Arya and Atharva trying to communicate with two street sweepers on parking logistics.




Day 2- Lisbon Day Tour to Sintra - Aug 9 

 Day trip and back to Moxy  (full day with 2 hrs of drive)

https://maps.app.goo.gl/KuEKU9SfXKX5A3tYA

Day trip from Lisbon to the historic and beautiful towns of Sintra and Cascais 

  • UNESCO-listed Pena Palace and Sintra Village
  • UNESCO-listed  Quinta da Regaleira
  • The cliffs of Roca Cape, the westernmost point of continental Europe
  • A scenic drive along the Atlantic coast, including starting at Cascais Beach and ending at Belem with stops along the way!

We booked our timed entry tickets ahead of timeand  :) And some useful links to do so are shared below. typically, the exact same tickets on viator or other middle man website are 50% more.


Day 3- Lisbon to Faro Aug 10 

Lisbon Tuk Tuk Private Tour

Benagil Cave Kayak To


ur followed by Pashmina Indian Restaurant Food!

Glamping


Day 4- Faro to Seville


SUNN Amador de los Ríos, by Homing U  8A Calle Júpiter, Nervión, 41003 Seville, Spain check in at pm - Amazing Apartment!



The Alcázar of Seville (royal palace in Seville, Spain) is a registered UNESCO World Heritage Site and is recognized as the oldest royal palace in Europe that is still in use. The upper chambers of the Alcazar are still used by the Spanish royal family as their official residence in Seville.


The Alcazar of Seville is one of the best examples of architecture in the style of Mudejar (the Moorish style). In this place in Seville, the original palace, called Al-Muwarak, was built by the Almohades in the 12th century. Construction of the current building on the site of the first Arabic fortress began in 1364 by order of King Pedro I. Since the construction, it has been constantly reworked and expanded, acquiring new stylistic features.The palace itself was truly breathtaking, exotic Arabian architecture with ornate floors, ceilings and walls, intricate details of the azulejos (ceramic tiles), beautiful green gardens immersed in the scent of roses and orange trees and fountains with a look ideal for recreating the Water Gardens of Dorne, seat of House Martell in the Game of Thrones series.






Flamenco



Setas de Seville

Vino de naranja was on our list to try and after the flamenco show, meaning closer to 11 pm, Atharva decided he wanted his dinner #2 and I got to check off my orange wine! We could not get over how safe all cities were and how people, young and old, were out and about dining at midnight! Reminded of our days growing up in Mumbai. 


Day 5- Seville to Madrid- Aug 12 (AC Hotel La Finca)- Check out of Seville and go to Madrid and follow Madrid plan (5 hrs

Toledo: A historic city known for its medieval architecture, including the Alcázar and the Cathedral of Toledo.


Campo De Criptana is known for the highest number of windmills.

Day 6- Segovia and Madrid Aug 13- Arya turns 17! 

Happy birthday to our first born:) Everything that we did today was Arya's pick! Italian it was for lunch as an example and that restaurant did not disappoint with one of the best buratta pizza we have ever had- it's called Oven in Madrid! 


We took a guided tour of the Madrid Palace in the morning and in the afternoon headed over to Segovia, about an hour away from Madrid to take in the picturesque and historical sights of Roman empire Aqueducts and Castle that inspired Walt Disney's Cinderella Castle:) 


Back in Madrid later in the evening, we had dinner at Walk to Wok.- a little fast food chain and awesome Asian cuisine. Then we have some time to stroll around the Mayor Square and surrounding areas, just soaking in the sights of the city and people watching.

Last on the list was a unique waking tour that Arya picked -the tour was lead by David who is also a professional actor. That gave this tour an edge above other tours...the tour was on Dark Secrets of Madrid - inquisition, terror, ghosts and more. The stories of paranormal and gory past of Madrid were eye opening and entertaining at the same time! Needless to say, right before the tour  there was time for a dessert - churro dipped in chocolate...in lieu of a birthday cake. Why? Birthday girl does not like cake! 

That's David in the collage enacting the spirit entering his body...this particular sight was one that entertained the people on the tour but totally perplexed the bypassers.


Day 7- Flight back home Leave Aug 14- An exhausting weeklong trip that was adventure and history filled ended with another plane ride home for 8 hours. This time around, as much as we gained time, the sight of the trip back home looked like this:) Goodbye Spain and Portugal...we will meet again!